Weekly Wrap up. Week 3. 2025. Checking in and setting long term plans

but... what about what you are already doing so well?

I spent a really lovely 2 hours with great friend and fellow business owner Lou on Wednesday in our "Content planning" meeting.

 We made short work of top quality coffees and cinnamon bun (me) and fruity flapjack (her) while brainstorming and bouncing ideas around. Lou's business is PR in the marine industry so  we don't cross over work wise, but we both work for ourselves and have hugley busy work diaries so in addition to the company, it is a welcomed  back up and support plus energy and inspiration.


I was working on structuring my day, week, month and beyond. Very grown up and quite scary ( I have already left her a voicenote today, dropping out of one of my agreed actions and am now fighting a bit of guilt/drop out failiure) which links me neatly to what I and all of us need to do. 


CHECKING IN. 


Have you set goals or resolutions for the year and as we hit "Quitters day" (cue Clare but more of that in due course) are you already chastising yourself? Or maybe you are that person in the class who is always thinking 'I can never do that thing... I am rubbish at this thing"....

How about you just stop and check in for a moment? Rather than what you haven't done, why not just tick off all the things that you HAVE done?


I was practically in tears one Friday before Christmas about allllll the things I hadn't done... and then I dipped into my metaphorical bag of tools and said to myself "what would you say if this was a dear friend, talking like this? You would give them a hug and direct their focus to all the things that they HAD done and ask them to give themsevles permission to let go of some of the things they had not done"....well! I had this little chat with myself as I was heading towards the stairs, and as I set off upwards, I said out loud to myself all the things I had done that day. By the time I reached the landing, I was terribly chuffed with myself. Crisis averted! 

It is only a standard staircase - if I lived in something akin to Downton Abbey, who KNOWS what I might have felt ready to conquer?


How about, before the end of January, you make a note of how many classes you are doing, how many times you use the library, what weight you are lifting, how many steps you are doing daily... are you doing "that" exercise with single or double leg? How many reps did you do? 

Make a little note, just for your own personal reference. Give it a couple of months or so and then check in... before you feel frustrated at what you CAN'T do, reflect on what you CAN do and perhaps, what you are doing more of or better than before. 

It can be a very powerful and empowering tool. 


You may choose to just use this as a check in to feel more postive but perhaps, if strength, fitness or mobility are your goals, then a monthly check in is a great way to stay on track, be accountable to yourself and see progresss or see where you need to make changes to enable progress. 


"Make your mind your best friend" Jay Shetty.


Now to reconsider asking Lou to ignore that voicenote, and do what I said I was going to do.... or let myself off and focus on all the recording I have done!  


What's coming up - 


Monday 08.45am - focus on what we need to do to stop our head feeling heavy and our necks aching


ROLLERS - you asked, I deliver. Thursday 9am. Get in touch with any small equipment queries. 


All details as ALWAYS are in your LIVE CALENDAR - please go the relevant class and open it to see what we are up to and what equipment you might need!


New in the library -

This week's Monday class - How to avoid a knee replacment part 1. Fortunately I am a physiology nerd and love researching plus have a wonderful physio client who has been really generous with her time so there will be a lot more still to come. 

Please note this (and subsequent) classes of this theme will be found in the newly titled "Happy hips and Love your knees!"


I am planning a walk and hot chocolate for Saturday 22nd Feb. I will email you details and Clare and I hope to see as many of you as possible :)




RESET CHALLENGE.

Our very own Clare is offering a 15 day reset challenge starting today. For more info, get in touch with Clare or with me and I can direct you.


AND Finally

 Health and fitness can be a "most of the time" thing. It does not have to be an "all of the time" thing.


Don't speak negatively about yourself, even as a joke. Your body doesn't know the difference. Words are energy and they cast spells - that is why it is called spelling.

Change the way you speak about yourself and you can change your whole life .

Bruce Lee.




Have a great weekend everyone x



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