Weekly Wrap up. Week 41. 2024. So why DO we need to lift weights?

So why do we need to lift weights?

Why should we lift weights? What are the gains?


Health reasons.

Here are just a few…

Improved balance and coordination, increased energy levels, improved sleep, stronger bones and reduced risk of osteoperosis, independent living into older age, reduced muscle loss, improved self confidence, helping weight management, improved mobility, better proprioception, increased metabolic rate, reduced blood pressure, improved self discipline, reduced inflammation, better posture, reduced risk of high blood pressure, reduced risk of heart disease and type 2 Diabetes ….. 



Aesthetics 

How do you look? If we don’t feel confident about ourselves it can have a massive knock on effect throughout so many other areas and reduce our confidence at work, socially and in relationships. It may lead us to avoiding social situations and lead to mental health issues such as depression and anxiety. Feeling strong physically helps us feel strong emotionally and mentally and being able to move freely and take part in sports, activities and having more energy all contribute to a happier and healthier mind. Looking good helps us feel good which in turn helps us feel happier so we want to do more and so the circle continues.


So how does it make bones stronger? 

Well, under load or resistance the muscles pull against the bones. This causes “osteo blasts” when the bones grow more dense. Resistance work puts the muscles under more load to pull even more against the bones.

“When your muscles pull on your bones, it gives them work to do. Your bones will respond by renewing themselves. This maintains or improves their strength. As your muscles get stronger, they will pull harder. This means your bones are more likely to get stronger.” - Royal Osteoporosis society.


But how do muscles get bigger?

Bit gross here but when you feel that burn, that is the muscle fibres tearing or suffering trauma but the good news is that then they grow back and they grow in even more multiples (hypertrophy) hence becoming bigger and stronger.


Sarcopnia or muscle loss can occur with ageing and lack of movement and we all know about the risk of reduced bone density. Low mood or depression, lack of energy, always catching every bug that is doing the rounds, dull skin and hair…..Why on earth would we not do everything we can to prevent this and look forward to a healthy independent life when we have options and can take action?


A quote I really love is “Better to be the oldest person in the gym than the youngest person in the nursing home”. 


The problem is that it takes time and discipline and we often find we don’t have much of either. Maybe starting really small and expecting less is more realistic. Maybe just start with one week. See what you can fit in that helps you move more but is realistic to fit in around your life, then slowly build on that until it becomes a habit and something that you want to do,

There is a difference between knowledge and wisdom and this is a wonderful topic that I am going to write more about in another blog but basically, we have masses of knowledge everywhere we look with regard to the WHY but truly embracing it and believing in the wisdom takes a bit more investment. We need to see and feel results before we fully commit and that may very well take a bit longer than the standardcooling off period but when the polls come in and you see some wins, that sense of achievement is just the best.



And so to weight loss 


The most common request I have had over 20 years of working in this industry is “I want to lose weight and tone up”.


People talk about wanting to lose weight but the reality is that we want to lose body fat. We don’t want to lose bones, organs, blood, muscles, tendons, cartilage, water… in order to reduce, we want to lose fat and that understanding can really help us with our approach to the whole situation.


Now, let’s just clear one thing up here…..


MUSCLE DOES NOT WEIGH MORE THAN FAT. 

A pound of fat weighs the same as a pound of muscle weighs the same as a pound of flour weighs the same as a pound of feathers. A pound is a pound is a pound. 


However ….. 

Muscle is more DENSE than fat. That means that muscle takes up less space than fat. This is where we need to possibly adjust our thinking. If you are exercising hard with weight loss as your goal, then you may see that the scales don’t change which can be really demoralising and may tell you that you are wasting your time. STOP - as you build muscle, you are replacing fat which means that while the scales don’t always show your progress, you will be reducing in size. As you build muscle, you could find that you are still the same weight as your much curvier friend but you are two dress sizes smaller. 



So why is lifting weights better for toning and weight loss than cardio?


Cardio exercise is fantastic for lots of people.  Endurance running used to be my absolute passion and getting on my bike now helps me shake off the cobwebs or get over a tricky day. Cardio is a great form of exericse and milions of people benefit from it in so many ways. 


However in order to  tone up - while cardio has  many benefits, you will get sculpted, shredded, toned, ripped, looking fit FAR more quickly by lifting weight. 


WHY? 

Muscle needs energy. Energy is taken in the form of calories. Your new and gorgeous muscles are sitting there like baby birds with their mouths open begging for calories. That means that while you are lying on the sofa working through a box set, your metabolism (converting food into energy) is working far harder than if you have less muscle and a higher fat percentage. It makes sense - fat does not need energy so why waste the time? Just store those excess calories as - guess what? FAT! Excess fat  is like the Jim Royle of the Royle family, lying about and doing nothing. 

Look - if you don’t believe me, how about this fact - competitive body builders will set their alarms to get up during the night (sometimes multiple times) to consume more calories so they do not risk muscle atrophy by not taking in enough energy. 


Have you ever noticed when lifting weight, how breathless you become even though you may be working quite slowly? There it is right there! Your muscels are working so they need more energy so your body is trying to draw in more O2 hence getting out of breath! Fascintaing stuff!!!



If losing fat is your goal, then measuring is a FAR more realistic way to chart your progress. 


Try this - once a week, on the same day, the same time, take your measurements. The widest part of one upper arm and leg, bust, just under bra line, waist, widest part of your tummy and finally the widest part of your hips. Don’t dwell on any one measurement but add them all together and write down the total. Try not to dwell on the measurements of any area you really want to reduce - it doesn’t work like that unfortunately and we cannot “spot” train so don’t set yourself up for a disappointment. Just focus on the grand total and compare week on week. As everything becomes more toned and recalibrates, so then those areas will catch up.


                   Step away from the scales! 



A quote I have taken and used a lot is “Women! Step away from starving and calorie counting. Fill up your plates, pick up your weights and step into your POWER!” - I love this so much I literally did have it made into t shirts! 


We have it covered - Tuesday 9am and Friday 8am every week online and recorded classes in the library. 


 Please make sure you wave goodbye to 2024 a stronger, fitter, healthier and even more fabulous version of you than when you welcomed it in!


Little footnote -   A really common concern I have heard is “I don’t want to bulk up”

 If only it were that easy!! This is always from women who are looking at possibly one training session a week with modest weights. Well, rest assured - unless you are charting your diet plan on spreadsheets, measuring every morsel you eat and are spending hours and hours in the gym lifting huge weight, you will not bulk up. 

With that in mind, it is usually the same concerned person who can be seen in a non gym environment balancing a child on each hip with multiple bags over their shoulders, dragging a dog and pushchair and basically navigating 3 times the weight they were too afraid to lift in a safe exercise environment!! Ring any bells? 


I really hope this has helped, informed and encouraged but I can talk your this all day so I dare say we will be back here again!!





The October 5 day Challenge

The 5 day October challenge 


WOW!! I mean WOW! I am absolutely blown away with how many of you turned up day after day. We averaged 45 people a day and it was just fantastic to see so many new faces and welcome people who I have never worked with before. 

I was so nervous on Monday morning, as I had no idea how many of you would actually join, I was not in my home studio and was SO worried about the wifi and it being light enough for you to see me! I need not have worried - we had 56 attendees on Monday, the Wifi behaved, the dogs behaved and all was well. During the week, we have been joined from Qatar, Hong Kong, Mallorca, Kefalonia, Marseille, the Dordogne, Madrid and all around the UK and I am just delighted. 

I have tried to be as varied as possible over the 5 classes to give you an opportunity to see how much we get up to and it is all recorded and will be finding it’s way to your email inboxes in the next few days.


If 7am works for you, get in touch as it is something I am looking at, moving forward. 



Online Members’ updates. 

 New content in the library this week - 

Clare’s classic Killer class from Wed (look in Clare’s classes, funnily enough!)

My Thurs Abs burner (Look in Mixed ability) 



Just a little head’s up - Half term week please note 


There are no live classes on Monday 28th, Tuesday 29th October and Friday 1st Nov. 


Clare is running TWO CLASSES on Wednesday 30th at 8am and 9am and again on Thursday when she is teaching her Halloween Horror classes 8am and 9am. 

Normal class schedule returns Monday 4th November. 

Remember


“A mistake repeated more than once is a decision.” Paulo Cohello. 


“If you are not changing it, you are choosing it” - unknown. 




Have a great weekend all, 

Jx 


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Along with fellow fitness professionals, I was learning how to use Zoom, membership platforms, booking programs, how to manage my website, multi screening, recording and editing. There were a lot of tears and coffee and I did not see my bed for 3 nights straight. BUT…. (indulge me here please) scrolling back through my old blog posts (still there for you to see!) I saw my first post about Live, free Facebook Pilates on March 20th and my first calendar of classes the same week as we went into lockdown. I went live, online for free every day, one way or another for 6 weeks right at the start. It nearly killed me and how Joe Wicks kept going, I do not know but I am so proud of that and what we achieved together. I was reaching into countries all over the world as at that time, not as many people were offering this and as everyone was at home, time zones were not as relevant. Friends and family were sharing the links so that they could do classes together and see eachother from wherever they were. To be honest, it is all a bit of a blur (as I am sure it is for many, many people) as I just fought hard to save my business and my sanity. I do vividly remember one class where we had zooms from Australia, America, Qatar, Dubai and Mallorca. I wrote it down on my office whiteboard where it stayed for years. It was just surreal and I honestly could not believe this was me! I was doing all this on my laptop mirrored to my TV, in my lounge! You saved me! I was on my own and horribly lonely and isolated and slowly going a bit mad and “having” to log on daily and be positve and upbeat and full of energy to motivate and inspire you genuinely saved me. I have removed most of the old lockdown content and anything that still triggers me into a shivver of how awful it was, but one thing that I hold in my heart with enormous pride is my online community. I am more proud of this than I can begin to descibe. You are my family. I created this, built and nurtured it and continue to be indescribably proud of what we have all acheived together. Our Christmas lunches, when I sit back and see so many friends, the care and what we share - please know that it means the world to me. We have got up to SO MUCH online over 5 years. I am not going to go back over it because a) it is all there in old blogs and social media posts and b) full disclosure, I am only truly, this last year, coming out of what the lockdown era took out of me and I do not wish to revisit it but…. True friendships have grown and we all know we really are “SO MUCH MORE THAN PILATES”. Only last week when a group of us met for a walk, I took so much from hearing you talking about how much YOU get from it - not just the exercise but the daily morning chats and check in’s, the community and support - that you cannot believe how you used to do one class a week, whizz in, whizz out and that was that until the following week whereas now you are doing multiple classes a week and what’s apping fellow members, logging in to see friends and sharing so much. I have been able to teach from Cornwall, Botswana, Croatia ,Pembrokeshire, the local beach…. and as my feet get ever more itchy, the wonders of online means have van, have wifi - you can come with me! I have never wanted to go down the commerical studio route. That was never for me. Far too restrictive - and as online works, the world awaits! So here we are. This last week we have beamed into MELBOURNE (furthest reach so far!), Singapore, Tanzania, Germany, France, Spain, Greece and never forgetting the Isle of Wight… we have more members than ever, a wonderful variety of classes and the library has had another update with more to come. Teatime talks are shaping up (new page on the website under construction), we have 2 socials in the diary and it’s still only February. This year is my 20th anniversary as a Pilates teacher and 22 years since I started out as a Personal trainer. As the wonderful Master Teacher Michael King (who I am going to for a week of Pilates in Crete in May) says - “Old Pilates teachers never retire. We just roll down one day and never roll back up” For our fifth anniversary, it seems only right to go back to where it started so bear with me and watch this space as I plan a collection of extra FREE classes available to EVERYONE, some on Zoom, some on instagram live. 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Ok, full disclosure. I think it was me that dropped the clanger yesterday morning... those of you who joined me would have seen that I was not at home, and when I arrived at my destination the night before, I realised I didn't have a magic circle with me and went into the 8am class and edited it to avoid the little hiccough and I THINK I may not have saved the changes. I may be wrong as I am in and out of the library ever such a lot but I am going to put my hand up and say it was me. I could probably wing it and get away with it but I have never been very good at lying and dishonesty does not sit well with me. Mind you, I say that..... I remember many moons ago... many, many moons ago when I was 15. My parents had a bar at the side of the lounge - terribly "all the rage" at the time, then terribly naff and I believe, quite the rage again now. Anyway, I was home on my own, I was bored and I started looking for mischief. I took the carefully hidden key ( hidden above the door as we all knew very well) and let myself into the little bar. I worked my way through the optics of many, almost certainly past their sell by date bottles of revolting sticky liquid and tried each and every one. Needless to say it was not long before I thought I was going to die. I staggered out of the back door to find somewhere to hide (and possibly die) and spied my sister's Hillman Minx which I crawled into and gratefully slept. When I woke, the effects were swift and I just managed to wind down the rear window and get my head out before events overtook me. As I was walking slowly back up the garden, my mother and sister arrived home and my sister was horrified at the state of her car. I still, to this day do not know how I did it but without missing a beat, I just informed her that there had been a load of seagulls flying overhead and they must have poo'd down the car door. Im still laughing now, some 42 years later, at how I just came out with that line and that, as I was staggering up the stairs "with the start of a bad cold", I heard my mother and my sister discussing how shocking it was that the seagulls had done that.... dear reader, we lived in Enfield, North London. There is not a coast for a hundred miles. My mother told us stories about when we were little and I recall the story of how my sister furiously denied writing all over the new wallpaper in her bedroom with a crayon. It was the fact that she would not back down and insisted it could not be her that saw her sent to bed. "But how did you know it was me?" she sobbed and my mother told us that the writing was, quite literally on the wall - all around her bedroom in wonky letters read "Louise 4" Yet, as the saying goes, there is none so easy to delude as oneself. I can say for fact that I have on many occasions talked myself into or out of situations, telling myself I could justify that cake because I deserved it, I could have that drink because I had earned it, I could slack off work because I had earned the right to... How many times have you gone to do something and then given yourself permission not to because of the story you came up with? I guess that can go too far and I know more than one or two who have lied for so long that they started to believe their own warped narrative. One such was my ex husband who lied to me about his age... when he asked me once to get his passport from his laptop bag, I flipped to the photo page to see how bad his picture might be, only to be confronted with a date of birth quite different from the one he had told me.. and he admitted that he had been telling me for so long that he had actually convinced himself he was indeed 8 years younger... Mind you, I still married him so who's the fool!! We all tell white lies and we don't want to cause unnecessary discomfort - if someone has just spent a fortune on a new outfit and they are thrilled, would we honestly tell them we didn't like it? ..... on that note though.... when we were teenagers, a friend of mine's mum and her neighbour went down their road to the church to watch the arrival of a bride for her wedding. Maybe it was because they hadn't been invited and were a bit miffed but they were less than complimentary and I can honestly remember this to the word and I am laughing as I write this ..."Crikey, the bride has clapped some weight on, hasn't she? I thought brides were meant to lose weight in the run up - do you think she has already eaten all the wedding cake? I would definitely wear sleeves with those arms" ... "And WHAT is Sheila wearing on HER HEAD? Call that a hat? 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She talks about healing without distraction - whether that is alcohol, drugs, food, shopping, exercise, scrolling social media... it takes so many forms but it is only when we remove the many distractions that we can start to sit with ourselves, get to truly know ourselves and then, and only then may we move forward. We know the need to be present, to be still, to be quiet but sometimes it helps to hear it delivered in a different voice or explained around another approach for us to see how it may benefit us. Anyway - my name is Juliet Nicholas. I am 56 and when I was 15, I vomited down the outside of my sister's car. There are no seagulls in Enfield.
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