Weekly Wrap up. Week 47. How was it for you?

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                                              How was it for you?

At the end of a week that has seen glorious sunshine, proper snow and Leonard getting back on a bike after all these years (The Archers....what could possibly go wrong),  I ask  "How was it for you?"


I am going to challenge you now and ask you - why do you exercise? This isn't a test or a trick but is a genuine question that I ask you to ask yourself. There is no right or wrong reply but I think sometimes it helps to dig a little deeper and connect with that inner voice that first sent you to participate in whatever your choice of exercise is.


There is a popular belief that we often start exercise to change the way we look but we keep exercising because of the way it makes us FEEL.


Maybe you love how exercise makes you feel and always have. Perhaps you come because your friend does and you enjoy sharing that with her. Maybe it is the only time away from all the chaos of life and you enjoy your "me time". Possibly you know that this is an essential part of your life to help you be the best version of you.

Do you come to classes because "you feel you ought to"? That is fine and a perfectly common reply but I would push a little further and ask why you feel you ought to? Is it your health? your weight? advice from a medical professional or friend or because everyone else does it so you think you should? This is one of the most common reasons for lacing up the trainers or un rolling your mat but if you can scrape off a few more layers, perhaps you will find you get so much more out of it by asking yourself why YOU think you should be turning up. Get to know your own personal reasons and you are far more likely to stay with it.


How was it for you? Next time you finish your class or walk or run, take a minute to think about that - how do you feel? What has it done for you?


One of my many favourite client lightbulb moments has been when, after I have taken the trouble to prescribe specific exercise/stretch/mobility moves the individual comes back and says "You know that exercise program you gave me? do you know what? I think it has actually helped" and this is always said with some element of surprise and always amuses me as though I too, will be amazed.


As we slide towards a time of year that is busy, often stressful and hectic and possibly a little overwhelming; a time when we may feel pulled in many different directions or that we are struggling to meet expectations of others but often of our own doing, our exercise time can SO EASILY be sacrificed for "more important" tasks because "there isn't time".


So I ask you again - why do you exercise?  If it is to help manage your achey joints, feel stronger, feel calmer in mind and spirit, to give you time to respect and value you own needs, to manage your weight, to have time out from everything else, to manage your mental health, to keep up your energy levels, to meet up with friends and have the social benefits, to keep some semblance of routine and structure, to build strength and tone, to feel great..... why o why o why would this be the thing you sacrifice when it is most needed?


I KNOW how busy it all gets but I also know (believe me, do I know!!) how quickly one skipped class becomes a week becomes pushed into the corner becomes the elephant in the room sometime in January... Who doesn't want to celebrate with good food and drink and parties?

 Of course this is par for the course and quite rightly so.... and I am not here to nag and preach, but to make some suggestions as to how we can make some subtle adjustments so that the last 11.5 months of turning up, working out, feeling great does not vanish in a puff of smoke up the chimney with the last echoes of Ho Ho Ho!


Rich food, alcohol, delicious snacks, late nights - FABULOUS! However if unchecked can lead to inflammation (achey joints), overloaded liver (poor sleep), weight gain (just... big sigh) so let's consider some simple steps to keep our exercise where it belongs - as part of our lifestyle and not a fad or a quick fix. That way we are so much more likely to keep it in our lives. 

I talked last week about motivation and the need to just keep turning up.

(Doing your exercise when you are totally lacking motivation is a huge win as that shows you that it is indeed a well formed lifestyle habit so well done! )


Don't worry about a full hour or sticking to 4 x a week. Be realistic. 15 mins with some weights or on the mat is done and dusted before the mince pies are ready to come out of the oven. A brisk walk is great to share with family (or escape them!) while someone else empties the dishwasher.

 By the time everyone has agreed on which Christmas movie to watch, you could have knocked out 10 squats, 10 lunges, 10 shoulder presses, 10 bicep curls and 5 roll downs. Set the alarm just 15 mins earlier for a quick fix before the day starts?

Totally exhausted at teatime? Can you find a quiet space for just 10 minutes for some deep breathing and stretching. You are not letting yourself down by not doing a weights or Pilates class. You are winning by still making time for you and what you need and getting on your mat.


It doesn't have to be about how much you work out  but that you continue to show up for you and just check in. Move, breathe, stretch,


psst - you have The Snack bar for some support and Clare and I are planning some Stocking Fillers too... watch this space. We are here for you!!


It makes such a difference if you know WHY you do it. Many years ago, I had picked my daughters up from school and needed some milk. I pulled up on Lymington High Street and parked outside Tesco (this was over 20 years ago!!) and said to my girls aged then around 8 and 6  "Just wait in the car. There is no need for you to come.  I am literally going to run in, turn round and run straight back out again" to which my youngest became helpless with laughter - "what a funny thing to do Mummy - why are you going to do that?".... a very fair point!



Members' Zone. 


Firstly, thank you for all being so quick to accomodate the small change this morning. Fortunately all was resolved very quickly and as you know, this happens ever so rarely but fortunately you all wasted no time in reading your emails and getting  logged in with no problem.  My new look website is taking shape but caused a minor and very temporary glitch. 


What's coming up. 

Clare and I are plotting and planning and we are bringing some extra festive classes to your screens in December... watch this space for Christmas Crackers and Stocking fillers! We have some extra goodies  planned for you!

Get ready to dig out those Christmas t shirts and sparkly leggings! 


New in the library. 


STRENGTH collection - week 3 Tuesday Functional Strength and Friday strength (Friday will be up by teatime)


Both in  All Levels AND Strength - Today's full body stretch with resistance band. 


Always check your live calendar ahead of your class to see what equipment you might need 


NO LIVE CLASSES ON THURSDAY


Tues 9am Functional strength week 4


Friday 8am Strength week 4


Christmas lunch - is now FULL and I cannot wait to see you all!


And a lot of plotting for December.... if you are not a member online,,,, hurry up and join us - we have SO much coming up!!



Some rather chilly, snowy donkeys in yesterday's snow!


Finally... do you have some flakey people in your life? Maybe now is time to exfoliate them away!! Remember - our friends can be drains or radiators... stay away from the drains....

Have a great weekend everyone. Jx .

By juliet May 14, 2026
Last weekend was a recognition of some huge achievements. On Friday I, like millions, watched the BBC concert to celebrate Sir David Attenborough’s 100th birthday. What an incredible man who has done so much for our planet and all it’s inhabitants. I found it hugely moving and reminisced about all the years his familiar voice boomed out of our TV screen as my own children grew up watching his documentaries. Of course me being me, I was instantly drawn to how many times he stood up… sat down… stood back up… I also later saw video footage of him arriving in the car outside The Royal Albert Hall and alighting from it totally unaided and just like during the concert, standing up and siting down with control and balance. My goodness me, if ever there was a lesson right there to never just let your brain turn to mush! While some are in such a rush to retire, he is a superb example of how beneficial it is to have a passion, to keep your mind and body active, to find something you love and to commit to it. Wasn’t it great to see that little clip of him, days away from celebrating 100 years, still working, recording the new Blue Planet! Despite his global fame and unparalleled success, he remains still so humble, so gentle and respectful. We could all benefit from being a bit more David. Onto Badminton Horse trials and to see the remarkable Ros Canter (as people have cracked the Romeo jokes to me all my life, how she must cope, I can’t imagine) winning Badminton and going on to to make history with Lordships Graffalo as the first same rider /horse partnership to win Badminton together 3 times. Not only that but she had a baby just 12 weeks ago!! To be so composed and deliver such stimulating interviews before she had even taken her riding hat off with her baby coo’ing on her hip and young daughter wrapped around her leg… what dedication to her sport. Keeping it real, she had to dash off just before her dressage test to express milk as her boobs were too big. Love it! Then the BAFTA’s on Sunday and while Adolescence predictably swept the boards, it was Martin Lewis’ speech on receiving a special award that moved me. He spoke of how he found out he had been nominated 42 years to the day after his mother had died when he was 12, and I quote “For six years, barring school, I barely left the house, and now I am picking up a BAFTA” He then spoke bravely and a little tearfully to tell whoever was watching that yes, you can turn your life around, you can fight your demons and find your way back (and being the brilliant human that he is, he finished his speech on the primetime platform he had, to bash the chancellor over student fees). How brave and what a strong message. Another big character devoting himself to sharing his passion and educating others. Earlier last week, Rachel Entrekin made history by beating both men and women to win the Cocodona ultra marathon in Arizona. "What is that" you might well ask! Well, recognised as one of the world’s toughest ultras, it is 253 miles long including numerous elevations and desert. She tells of surviving on mashed potatoes (easy to swallow, don’t waste energy on chewing) and 19 minutes’ sleep over 56 hours. What an unbelievable achievement - to keep pushing when everything in your body is screaming at you to stop. The power of the mind over the body. However, was it not put into perspective if, like me, you happened to watch The Antiques Roadshow, presenting on Sunday at Bletchley park, based around artefacts and memories from WW2. What exceptional men and women who performed acts of unimaginable courage and selflessness. Their stories deserve to be heard over and over again. Simple, everyday folk who found themselves in uniform, fighting for their country. Can we even begin to imagine? We can’t all break world records or win awards. We can’t all expect stratospheric careers and global success. However, we can all change our lives and impact those around us, in even the smallest ways. I think if we look back and reflect on experiences we have survived, we can ALL think of challenges and situations we thought we could never get through, times that seemed never ending, pain that seemed too much to bear. Yet here we are. We are all warriors. We are all world champions in our own lives. It can be easy to overlook our achievements but helpful to reflect sometimes in order to see how brilliant we all are. Maybe you had the courage to leave a job or friendship or even a marriage that made you unhappy. Maybe you finally took up that activity or started that project you had always put off as you were scared of failing. Maybe you just finally learned to say no sometimes. All big wins in their own right and all worthy of celebrating, even quietly and privately. I was determined to clear and organise the chaos that is my garage. Stored furniture, xmas decs I don’t want any more: you know how it is. As a bit of a control freak, this disorganised clutter was constantly chipping away at my OCD brain. RIGHT! A couple of Fridays ago, I marched over, opened the door, looked at the enormous job in front of me, shut the door and went back to the house, totally overwhelmed. Instead I lay on the sofa, stuck on my audio book and gave myself the afternoon off with a note to self - it's Friday. You need to stop! Fast forward to last weekend and having got a few other ducks in a row, I opened that door again and worked my way through, selling some things on eBay, doing a tip run, stacking and sorting. I was SO ridiculously pleased with myself. Will it benefit anyone or make any difference in the world? No, of course not but I had achieved something that showed me how important it is to listen to myself. I recognised that on the other Friday, choosing to postpone it was the right thing to do rather than seeing it as a cop out and that giving myself space and time to come back to it was the better option. Just a little win, but a win nonetheless. I didn't win Badminton or get a lifetime achievement award, but I know how many of you will feel my joy! It is a tough old world out there and to steal a well used quote “comparison is the thief of joy”. If you find yourself “falling short”, perhaps take a moment to consider who you are measuring yourself against - is it a fair and reasonable comparison? Are you taking into account what you have already ticked off and achieved in your day. My goodness! this is something I have had to work SO hard at; am I falling short? Could I have done more? and learning to say to myself “what you did today was enough’. I find the following a really useful tool - if you find yourself tutting over what you haven’t done or getting upset over not matching up where you think you fall short, take a moment to focus on what today, you HAVE done. It may not be ground breaking but acknowledge, recognise and reward yourself for what you HAVE achieved, even if you just got dressed and faced the world. Sometimes, that is enough. A brilliant piece of advice I was given was this - talk to yourself the same way you would talk to your best friend. If they are having a wobble, a moment of insecurity or self doubt you would instantly jump in to lift them up, point out their strengths and successes, show them what they have done well so why not to yourself? Learn to be your own best friend. No-one wants to revisit that terrible experience or that dreadful pain or that life changing loss but sometimes it is useful to reflect on that time and remember how strong you were, how you DID get through it, how you ARE still here and that is part of what makes you amazing. Jay Shetty says in his book Think like a monk, “Be the person you would want to be in a relationship with”. Maybe that means pulling your socks up. Maybe that means recognising how wonderful you are! I'll leave that with you. Wrapping up, this week I received an email following last week's blog from a friend and fellow teacher who I worked with a few years ago and I share - "Hi Juliet!. A good article about Pilates and running......I have now run over 50,000 miles and recently put in a 31 minute 5k at age 80. I hold my Club's record for running (& finishing before the cut-off) their annual 10 mile cross country championship 54 years apart (1969 & 2023). My brother has replacement hips and my sister replacement knees - neither run nor do Pilates....." I think we are all warriors deep down. We just sometimes need to remind ourselves! If you are still unsure about joining us online and would like to see more of what we get up to, here is a link to a 30 min pure mat mixed ability class. Have a look and always come back to me with your comments and questions. For just £45 a month , you can access 7 live classes (in a typical week) plus access to a huge library plus me on the end of the phone or FaceTime to discuss any areas where you may want more support plus the invitation to request specific classes plus social events and get togethers.
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