Weekly Wrap Up. Week 35. 2024. Carfest and Imposter Syndrome.

Carfest 2024!


On the week that we hear Oasis is reforming… as we go in search of bucket hats and Parkers and middle aged men across the country cut their fringes weirdly short and grow in their sideburns, it’s a hello from me in a very sunny Pembrokeshire where I am having a well deserved few days away from it all with the essentials - camper van, two dogs, walking boots and a pile of books. Absolute bliss! 


Carfest! 

Well what a fantastic few days we all had. I think the name is misleading and as Chris Evans (who created and runs it) becomes ever more health and wellness focused, so too does the festival which saw me spending most of my time listening to talks from the likes of Dr. Rangan Chaterjee, Kirsty Gallagher, Dr Louise Newson, and Megan Rossi to name but just a few. Plus Tim Peake, Noel Fitzpatrick, Deborah Meaden… the list goes on!


I will be referencing things I learned from the talks I attended as we go along- we can all buy the books, listen to the podcasts, watch the programs but is always seems much more powerful when you are there in person hearing first hand. Mind you, I was busy typing notes on my phone in one group talk and looked up to see Megan Rossi staring at me and I was mortified - I sort of wanted to jump up and say “no, listen - I am writing notes, I am not what’s apping my friends… I am storing your wonderful words of wisdom!!!”….


My camping booking was changed at the last minute. No problem but having had a lot of emailing back and forth to confirm what was what, I decided to just check what the set up was as I had my enormous sized tent (attaches to the side of my camper and makes life a lot easier). I couldnt reach my “girl on the site” so referred to the website where it stated “no gazebos, no windbreakers etc” so I dutifully removed all the tent paraphernalia from my van, deciding to the embrace the cosy challenge of sharing a very small space with my good friend Vanessa who was arriving the following day. My contact did call me back when I was on the M3 and was very vague and really not sure so I decided not to risk it and continued on my way. 

Well… let’s just say that on arrival it became clear that I was the only rule abider and I was the only, I repeat ONLY van who did not have an entire canvas village attached… I honesty did contemplate turning around and going home for it, but if you can recall the hurricane of last Thursday, I decided  to be grateful not to have that wrestle and instead tried to work though my sense of betrayal and loss. 


I was absolutely thrilled to teach my classes in the studio at “Spa fest” where a timetable of events ran over the 3 days. I was delighted to have huge turn outs for both classes with my twin nephews and Lou as my guests of honour who very loyally joined my Sunday class - thank you! 

In spectacular fashion, I mixed my times up, arriving impressively early for my first class and nearly bursting a gasket as I charged across the site when I realised my error for my second… I should have been more than aware - I had been screen shotting all the different talks and events I wanted to attend that day and had sent to Lou who was coming on the Sunday and she rather pointedly sent back a screen shot of “Juliet’s Pilates 2.00pm” which clashed with a talk I had planned on attending… ah yes, that small detail! 


We had “The hay bales” talks where an astronaut and a space man chatted together (Tim Peake and Sam Ryder) and were fully emboldened, inspired and warrior like after so many empowering talks from a huge range of presenters.

 As a “performer”, I got access to The Green Room and The VIP Guest bar where I enjoyed some major imposter syndrome as people asked me what talks I was doing or what books I had out… well, you never know…. Watch this space

Chris tends to encourage anyone who is a guest on his radio show to come along “and do a slot” so I brushed shoulders with “Trent Crim” ( have you heard the rumours about a possible season 4??) Vassos of course and Andy Ramage but oh my, oh my, oh my… to have a chat and a selfie with Uncle Bryn!! Rob Brydon is part of the Carfest family and is always there, and never fails to entertain. Uncle Bryn tho!!!! Someone did ask him just what did happen on "that fishing trip" but he swears he does not know!


I must admit I was disappointed in two performers (Scouting for Girls and Sam Ryder) who asked for a chance to get their breath back between songs. Really boys, you need to seriously raise your game! We all know as I have mentioned previously that our Tay Tay goes through her entire set while running on the treadmill in order to be fit - mind you... my brother and I were googling the singers from our teenage years to compare where we were!


There was, understandably a lot of chat about the power of  social media and having had encouragement and input from a couple of people, it motivated me to start doing more video online content, so I started the day I got home. Dodgy home editing and definitely keeping the reels "real" but you have to start somewhere, right?! Have you any idea how absolutely terrifying it is to record and post on socials? I mean I am live online every working day but posting is a WHOLE different ball game… this is where you are exposed and open to critique and really putting yourself out there. I have had so many teachers I worked with, approach me about this and how to start it so I jokingly said to one that I would lead by example - that set me up didn't it! I have no choice now!


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When we were approaching lockdown and everyone was starting to choose to stay home and I turned up to an empty village hall ( that seems forever ago now) just a few days before Boris locked us up, I decided to embrace my inner warrior and I went live on instagram. Absolutely terrifying . TERRIFYING as I saw more and more (and more.. and more)  popping up…. All I was doing was my usual class but to a screen, standing on a stage in an empty hall… why is it so different? I don’t really know but it is and what was amusing/reassuring was talking to quite a few apparently successful authors and influencers in The Green Room, many of whom I have heard and seen on tv and radio, who all confessed to imposter syndrome…. Clearly we all need more practise with Kirsty to embrace our inner Goddess…. she however, had us all taking off our shoes and holding our hands to our hearts with our eyes closed and I can't quite believe everyone was invested in that one



When I got to the studio on the first day, my “manager” asked me to do a quick talk to camera VT (SOO down with the lingo)  which would be posted on the Carfest Socials. Well, I faffed about not being ready, not prepared, did I need to do my hair blah blah, and then decided “Oh Sod it, just do it” which I did and ironically having shared to my own socials have had more positive commenters and feedback than I think, any other post I have done!! The sunnies helped cover up the real me and the look of panic I think! 


Retro fest was just delightful with a vintage caravan and tent village with all the owners dressed in clothes of the relevant decade and a large WW2 display of vehicles again with everyone in relevant uniforms and I did also walk over the bridge and enjoy some car racing. It was very funny to see my very first car, the Escort Mk 1 going round the track as a vintage!!!


The music line is always so varied and seeing everyone live is always exciting so we bopped along to the likes of Jake Shears, Richard Ashcroft, Olly Murs, Beverly Knight, The Feeling, Reef, Judge Jules and of course, the closing act and absolute joy of UB40.  Lead singer Ali Campbell is so ordinary looking and unassuming despite his very distinctive voice and global fame. He didn't engage with his crowd at all and seeing him close up on the big screens dotted about he could honestly pass for a Ricky Gervais character like Clive the supermarket trolley collector!


All the monies raised go to various childrens' charities and it was great to see different people such as CEO of Children in Need, Simon Antrobus as well as Ellen MacArthur coming up on stage to talk about their work as well as meeting some very inspiring young people who have benefited. While we are having a huge amount of fun, it is a good check in for us all. 


And so to sunny Pembrokeshire. I picked the dogs up on Monday morning, unpacked and repacked the van ready for an early Tuesday get away and both dogs lay by the van door the whole time - there was no way I was leaving them again! We had the bonus of meeting up with my bestie Emmafrombloodycardiff for an impromptu coffee in a service station on the M4 en route which was lovely!  (so named as many years ago, way before sat nav etc., I would get spectacularly lost every time I visited, bearing in mind that she has lived in the same house for 29 years. Anway, to sum up how it was, one day my mother asked my then 9 year old daughter where we were going that weekend to which she replied "we are going to visit Emma in Bloody Cardiff" which has stuck forever more! 


I have packed walking boots, light weights, mini loops and several books so all corners are covered - pleasure, maintenance and relaxation. Mind you, Bertie is slow at the mo and not totally sound so walking may be somewhat curtailed.


To answer a question I was asked recently, no we will not be easing back gently on my return w/c 9th… I am keeping up with my training,.. how about you? I know you are all in very good hands with Clare taking best care of you anyway. 


May I take this opportunity to wish our online friend in Madrid a really wonderful wedding day tomorrow (Saturday) - you kept that quiet but I have my sources! Have a truly happy day and lots of love to you both. 


The September challenge will be going up in time for the start of month and as always, do let me know how you get on. 


We have a really super group getting together for lunch in a couple of weeks and I very much look forward to seeing you all. 


There will be no weekly wrap up next week.

 I am posting on socials so find me there but the laptop is now closing… when I was chatting to Dr. Rangan Chaterjee (wink, wink - see how I slipped that in - he is SO tall… my ex husband was 6’4’.. actually he probably still is, and RC is definitely taller)… annnwayyyyy, I commented on how commendable it was that he goes fully off radar for 4 weeks, staying off all social media etc… “oh yes”, says I…” I will delete my socials Apps and my work email apps’…. “Well done" says he “That will really enhance your time away blah blah”… "oh yes" says I "I was so inspired....." - well that was a load of rubbish as you can see!! It is a work in progress so I am posting this, doing a couple more recordings (consistency is key, don’t you know) and then the laptop really is closing as I do my very best to switch off for just a week… hmmmm….

I saw a great post yesterday that said “one of the best things about running your own business is you get to choose which 80 hours a week you work”

 

 I am however stuck into a blood thirsty Patricia Cornwell crime thriller except unfortunately the 2 victims of a gruesome murder were camping... slightly unfortunate choice of reading as I am in my van in the middle of nowhere!!


And finally… 


Just one this week… 


A bad attitude is like a flat tyre. You can't go anywhere until you change it!


See you on socials soon and in classes from 9th. 


Have a great week and toodle pip x


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